The Shift

The Shift is a 7-day a life-changing training/experience for parents, educators and folks that want to transform how they relate to kids and support their learning, autonomy and agency outside of conventional education and parenting norms.

A training for people who feel the old world falling apart - and are looking for real support to live what comes next

The world as we know it is unraveling: systems built on control, competition, and disconnection are failing. Many feel it, but few know what comes next. That’s where The Shift begins.

What many people are carrying right now isn’t just disagreement with the world as it is - it’s the question of how to live differently when the old ways no longer work.

What once felt obvious or “normal” no longer makes sense, and new ways of relating haven’t yet become embodied.

This often shows up not as big decisions, but in everyday moments  - in how we respond under pressure, how we relate to kids and each other, and how we navigate uncertainty without a clear map.

The Shift is not just a program. It’s an invitation to step into the future with clarity, courage, and community and learn new ways of relating to and supporting young people outside of conventional educational and parenting norms. 

By naming what is, we reclaim our agency. By unlearning what no longer serves us, we create space for something new. And by coming together, we cultivate the belonging, trust, and vision needed to build a future beyond fear. 

The Shift is for those ready to stop fighting a broken system and start living the alternative. The new world isn’t a distant dream: it’s already taking shape. Will you be part of it?

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You might recognize yourself in wanting to:

  • live with more ease and trust in your family, community, or work

  • move beyond power struggles and relate with kids in ways that feel respectful and real

  • feel more connected - to your children, to others, and to yourself

  • act from clarity rather than fear when questioned or judged

  • communicate with honesty and care, even in moments of conflict

  • feel steadier in your choices, without needing certainty or perfection

  • unlearn patterns shaped by society's norms and live something more aligned

The Shift is a place to practice that.

Embrace Transformation with The Shift

Are you seeking deeper connections within your family, community, or organization? Do you desire to support the autonomy and agency of kids beyond the conventional school system?

Many people feel a quiet pull toward something different.

Not because everything is broken - but because the ways we were taught to relate no longer feel right.

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What Is The Shift?

The Shift is a 7-day deschooling/deconditioning experience designed to help you align your life with your values while fostering equity, authenticity, and choice in your relationships.

It's a transformative program designed to guide parents, facilitators, and educators on a journey of personal growth, empowerment, and connection.

Whether you’re just starting to question conventional education or are well into your transition, this program offers the tools and insights you need to thrive.

Through six foundational pillars, we’ll guide you toward lasting transformation:

Transitioning to Self-Directed Education (SDE):
Practical tools and insights to navigate the shift with clarity and confidence.

Communication:
Learn conflict resolution and communication strategies that deepen connection.

Culture Creation:
Build a harmonious environment that supports autonomy and aligns with your values.

Community:
Foster meaningful relationships and support networks that empower everyone involved.

Healing:
Address the wounds of conventional education and systems of power, and reconnect with your intuition and purpose.

SDE Youth Rights Advocacy:
Center youth rights in your journey toward self-directed education.

The Shift is a practice space for parents, educators and folks who want to live their values - not just believe in them.

It’s for those who already know that fear, pressure, and control don’t create the kind of relationships or world they want - but who still find those patterns showing up when life gets hard.

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What to Expect from The Shift

The Shift is more than a course: it’s an immersive, transformative experience that meets you where you are and guides you forward with intention and care.

Over 7 days, you’ll participate in interactive live sessions designed to challenge and inspire you. These aren’t lectures; they’re opportunities for deep reflection, connection, and growth. 

You’ll engage in:

  • Thought-Provoking Exercises: Uncover the conditioning and beliefs that shape your approach to parenting, education, and relationships.

  • Insightful Discussions: Explore core concepts like power, autonomy, and consent, and how they apply to your life and relationships.

  • Practical Tools and Strategies: Learn actionable ways to strengthen communication, build trust, and foster connection in your family, community, or organization.

A Supportive Learning Environment: Connect with like-minded participants in a space that encourages vulnerability, openness, and shared learning.

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The Power of Culture Creation and Community

One of the most transformative aspects of The Shift is the opportunity to create and be part of a like-minded community. The journey of deschooling and transitioning to self-directed education can often feel isolating. Many participants describe feeling misunderstood or judged by those around them as they challenge conventional systems.

Through The Shift, you’ll experience what it means to come together in community. This is a space where you can:

  • Share your experiences with others who truly understand your challenges and aspirations.

  • Build connections with people who are also committed to fostering autonomy, respect, and agency for young people.

  • Discover how to create a culture -whether in your family, community, or organization - that supports collaboration, mutual respect, and equity.


By joining this program, you’re not only learning tools and strategies for change; you’re also finding a network of allies to walk this path alongside you. 

Together, you’ll explore what it means to build relationships that empower both adults and young people, creating a ripple effect of transformation in your life and beyond.

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What Transforms During The Shift?

This experience is a journey of personal and relational transformation. Participants often describe:

A Shift in Perspective:
Gain clarity on the deep-rooted beliefs and systems that influence your parenting, facilitation, or teaching style.

Healing from Conventional Systems:
Address the impact of dominant and disempowering systems on yourself and your relationships, creating space for growth and self-compassion.

Deeper Self-Connection:
Reconnect with your intuition and values, allowing you to show up more authentically in your relationships.

Improved Communication:
Cultivate tools for navigating conflicts, fostering collaboration, and building trust with young people and others.

Empowered Relationships:
Move from power struggles to relationships grounded in mutual respect, consent, and connection.

Confidence in Transitioning to SDE:
Feel equipped to navigate the challenges of self-directed education with clarity and purpose.

A Sense of Belonging:
Find solace in knowing you’re not alone in this journey and feel empowered by a community of like-minded individuals.

The Shift Is a Transformative Space for Growth

Whether you’re reflecting on your own experiences, engaging in group dialogue, or integrating new strategies into your daily life, The Shift is a dynamic and engaging process. You’ll leave feeling more confident, connected, and empowered to create the life and relationships you envision.

Are you ready to step into this experience?

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What Do Your Kids Do
While You’re Busy Shifting?

Kids Camp with Experienced Facilitators!

The Shift is an adults-only training - but we encourage you to bring the whole family!

We offer an incredible Kids Camp designed to provide your young people with a meaningful and enriching experience while you focus on your deschooling journey.

What’s Kids Camp all about?

  • Fun and Engaging Activities: Your kids will have the chance to explore, play, and connect with other young people in a safe and nurturing environment.

  • Experienced Facilitators: Our Kids Camp is led by skilled facilitators who deeply understand self-directed education and know how to cultivate spaces where young people thrive.

  • A Holistic Family Experience: While you’re diving into transformative work, your kids will be on their own journey of creativity, connection, and autonomy.

This setup allows everyone in the family to have a positive, growth-oriented experience -separately, but together. You’ll leave not only with new insights but also with shared stories and memories to build on as a family.

  • “The Shift changed how I see my life and my child’s life. I’m learning to trust myself — and the path we’re on — in a way I couldn’t before. I’m less caught in fear and pressure, and more able to actually listen, connect, and respond in a way that feels right for both of us.”

    Brianna

  • “The Shift helped me see how my beliefs were shaping the way I relate — to my child, my partner, and myself. I feel less reactive, more connected, and more able to stay present in moments that used to overwhelm me. It’s not just what I learned — it’s how I’m able to show up now.”

    Leila

  • “The Shift gave me a completely different way of understanding how I lead and relate — not just as an educator, but as a human. I feel more grounded, more compassionate, and more able to communicate clearly, even in difficult moments. It changed how I show up with young people — and with everyone else.”

    Jessica

Who Holds the Space

The Shift is held by Becka Koritz and Sari González, long-time collaborators and co-founders of Radical Learning.

Together, we bring over 30 years of combined experience working with children, families, educators, and communities - supporting shifts away from fear-based, control-driven ways of relating and toward practices rooted in trust, consent, and connection.

We’ve been offering The Shift since 2021, holding it many times with participants across Mexico, the United States, and Puerto Rico. Over the years, the training has evolved through lived experience - shaped by the people in the space, the questions they bring, and what actually supports meaningful, lasting change.

Our work grows out of practice - as facilitators, as humans, and as mamas of neurodivergent unschoolers (Becka to a 20-year-old, Sari to an 11-year-old). These experiences deeply inform how we think about learning, power, relationship, and what it means to live our values under real conditions.

We are also the hosts of the Radical Learning Talks podcast, an ongoing conversation about learning, relationship, power, and culture creation - grounded in lived experience and held through dialogue rather than certainty.

We don’t work from fixed answers or formulas.
We work from inside the process - paying close attention to consent, group dynamics, and relational safety, and adjusting the space in response to what’s actually happening.

Together, we bring a balance of structure and play, depth and lightness.
The Shift is held with care, clarity, and trust in people’s capacity to learn through relationship - without being pushed, fixed, or rushed.