Deeply Deschooling
Deeply Deschooling is a small-group coaching space for parents who believe in a more self-directed, relationship-centered way of raising and learning with their kids — but still find themselves getting pulled into fear, doubt, and pressure.
Join the waitlist for 2027
8 Saturdays
Coaching • somatic work • resonance • constellation work • community
7-9am PT, 9-11am CT, 10-12pm ET, 16-18 CET
Untangle • Heal • Embody
You don’t need more information.
You need support to stay with yourself when fear takes over.
You believe in a different way of raising and learning with your kids — outside of the conventional school system.
More trust. More connection. More freedom.
But in the moments that matter… fear, doubt, and pressure take over.
And suddenly — it doesn’t feel okay anymore.
You’re not just trying to parent differently.
You’re trying to live differently.
You know this moment
Something feels off… and you can’t quite explain why.
You feel it before you can name it — a tightness, a sense that something isn’t okay.
Your child is on a screen all day…
or it looks like nothing is happening.
Or maybe it’s learning, reading, math, or socialization...
and a quiet voice says: “This should look different.”
You start wondering:
Are they learning enough?
What about their future?
Are they going to be okay?
Am I messing this up?
Nothing actually changed.
But inside you — everything did.
And suddenly… it doesn’t feel okay anymore.
This is the part no one talks about
It’s not that you don’t believe in this path.
It’s not that you don’t trust your child.
It’s that something in you gets activated and pulls you out of that trust.
You get caught in a loop:
Fear → self-doubt → pressure → disconnection
It happens fast — before you have time to think.
You react in ways you didn’t want to.
You question everything.
Later, you’re left wondering: Why does this keep happening?
There’s a reason this happens
Most of us were shaped inside systems like school — built on pressure, performance, and control.
They taught us to live with:
urgency
comparison
evaluation
fear of falling behind
pressure to perform
So even when you choose a different path, those patterns come with you.
When something feels uncertain, your body reacts before your mind can catch up.
That urgency, that tightness, that need to act — is trying to protect you.
Those patterns live in how you react, relate, and how you make decisions.
And they don’t change just because you understand them.
That’s the deeper work of deschooling.
Deeply Deschooling is where that work happens
This isn’t a course or a parenting program.
And it’s not about giving you more strategies.
It’s about unpacking what shaped you.
This work is for people trying to live outside the dominant education paradigm — and untangle what that paradigm left behind.
Deeply Deschooling is a small, facilitated space where you bring real moments — fear, triggers, doubt — and we work with them together.
Because even when you choose a different path, those patterns still show up in the moment.
So when those moments come up… you don’t get pulled the same way.
Instead of:
spiraling
second-guessing
reacting from pressure
trying to “get it right”
You begin to:
pause
see what’s happening
stay with yourself
respond in a way that actually feels aligned
Over time, something shifts
You don’t stop having hard moments. But:
fear is no longer in the driver’s seat
you recover faster when you get triggered
you stay more connected to yourself and your child
you trust your choices more deeply
you feel more steady in the life you’re building
you experience more moments of ease and joy that remind you why you chose this path
Even when those moments come up — you know how to handle them.
You don’t just understand trust.
You start to live it.
What this support looks like
Deeply Deschooling is a 4-month small-group container.
Inside, you get:
8 live facilitated sessions
Work through real situations as they’re happening, so you can shift in the moment instead of spiralingSomatic + relational practices
Learn to notice what’s happening in your system and pause, so you can respond differently instead of reactHot seat coaching
Get support with your real-life moments, so you leave with clarity and confidenceAccountability partner sessions
Stay supported between sessions, so the work shows up in your daily lifeCommunity space
Be part of a space where this path is understood, so you don’t feel aloneCommunication That Transforms Relationships (pre-recorded course)
Learn tools for connection, boundaries, and repair, so you can stay connected when things feel hard
Optional 1:1 deep support
Go deeper into your patterns, so they stop running the show.
This is for you if…
You’re not just questioning school — you’re trying to live outside of it.
You believe in a more connected, trust-based way of raising your kids
You feel a gap between what you believe and how you show up under stress
You keep getting pulled into fear, doubt, or pressure
You’re tired of second-guessing yourself
You don’t need more information — you need support living what you already know
Some are unschooling.
Some are transitioning out.
Some are still navigating school due to life circumstances.
What they share is this:
They want to live differently — and stay with that when it gets hard.
This is NOT for you if…
You’re trying to recreate school at home
You’re looking for curriculum or what to teach
You want step-by-step formulas
You’re looking for quick fixes
You’re not open to deeper inner work
You don’t have to keep doing this alone
You don’t have to perform confidence you don’t feel.
You don’t have to pretend the fear isn’t there.
Especially when you’re trying to live outside systems that trained you to do the opposite.
This is a space where you can bring the hard moments — and not have to hold them by yourself.
If you’ve been in that moment — where everything you believe disappears and fear takes over — this is the work.
The space we hold
Deeply Deschooling is facilitated by Sari González and Becka Koritz, educators and unschooling parents who have spent decades supporting families and learning communities rooted in trust and self-directed learning.
Our work draws on practices including:
Coaching
Decolonized Non-Violent Communication
SenseThinking
Resonance work
Family Constellations
Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)
Tarot mirroring
Reflective dialogue and inquiry
But the deepest learning often comes from the community itself — parents witnessing each other and realizing they’re not alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Parent/caregiver groups and communities ready to unlearn coercion, rebuild trust, and create homes and cultures where kids’ autonomy can thrive.
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We meet online for 8 live sessions across 4 months. Each session blends reflection, small-group practice, and 1:2 coaching. Between sessions, you’ll meet your partner for mutual support.
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Clarity, confidence, and trust in yourself and your kids.
A more peaceful home dynamic.
And the grounding to live a school-free life rooted in connection, not control.
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We guide, hold, and reflect — offering both concrete tools and deep witnessing. This is shared work, done in community, held with care.
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Our approach is flexible and responsive to each group. We draw from a blend of modalities that support emotional, relational, and systemic healing — such as Resonance Practice, Sense Thinking, Family Constellations, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), and Tarot.